The Beauty Bias

I thought it’s necessary to talk about “Beauty bias” because we live in a world where there is strong regard for the physical beauty. Physical attractiveness can have a tremendous effect on how people perceive and treat people with better physical appearance in different terms.

what is beauty bias?

The simple definition of beauty bias is that the physical attractiveness of individuals drives you to treat them differently and more appreciably, so you begin to think that they are trustworthy simply because they give the impression that they are beautiful. You automatically begin to give good-looking men and women the favourable characteristics, so you begin to believe they are smarter, better people, more polite, trustworthy and reliable than less attractive persons. Most of the time we become prey of appearance stereotypes without even realizing it.

do attractive people make more money?

You may not believe that, but attractive people are more likely to be hired than less attractive people just imagine applying for a job or a particular position, and someone more attractive than you have applied for the same job, the more attractive someone has the better chance of getting that job.  This is horrible, isn't it? And somehow, it's hard to believe. It doesn't stop here, also higher salaries are more likely to be paid to attractive people.

READ MORE on why they make more money than anyone else https://www.businessinsider.com/halo-effect-money-beauty-bias-2014-11

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what are the advantages of being beautiful?

Being physically attractive will enhance your life. People seem to think beautiful people are usually nice, smarter people. Besides, attractive people have higher chances of being accepted and appreciated by their friends than less attractive people. They make friends faster than others too. And I remember when pretty girls used to be the bosses at school.

Another significant argument is that if we usually tend to agree that attractive individuals are trustworthy and decent people, we are more likely to be more transparent with them without even being wary and we wouldn't be afraid to address our own problems with them out of our conviction of their dignity and consideration. Furthermore, attractive people are more likely to be supported by their friends and acquaintances.

The charming prince and the gorgeous princess!

When we were kids, we used to watch fairy tales and that all the good people were attractive and the BADDIES were ugly (according to beauty standards), I don’t really understand the link between the physical appearance and inner intentions of people. It's kind of annoying, I mean, if you don't meet the beauty standards people think you 're fit to act as a villain or a wicked witch just because of your physical appearance. These children, when they grow up, will pay a great deal of money to look closely like the attractive figures they used to see on telly.

Read more https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6110260/

The disadvantages of being physically attractive

Attractive people want to be loved for whom they are not because of their physical appearance, they want to be hired because they deserve this job, they want people to stop thinking that they are the person they are today because they are attractive, they work day and night to achieve their goals. So, please stop thinking that they're successful just because they're attractive.

 P.S don’t use this article to support and encourage your envious thoughts because we all are beautiful on our own way. 

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 Avoid manipulation

The most suitable approach to avoid manipulation is to focus on what psychological manipulation is.

Because I know most people have been exploited and I'm sure that you need nobody to experience this traumatic phenomenon, that is why I thought that, because of the fact that many people are being exploited without realizing it, I really wanted to think about this subject. In the first place, I need you to know that the manipulators are determined to exploit you and form you, in such a way that you can do whatever they wish you will do in their best interests; nevertheless, they frequently give you friendship and affection, They don't value you as much as you think, they just have to use you to achieve their objectives. Another thing about manipulators persons I need you to know is that they are victimizing themselves, and you will feel really guilty, and they'll make you feel like you're not doing what's needed to do and you are going to do more. It disempowers you and it definitely weakens yourself mentally. This form of relationship is poisonous. Therefore, it is important to be educated on how manipulation can be treated.

Emotional manipulation!

There are so many forms of manipulation, but I think about thinking about emotional manipulation because people experience most abuse of this nature. It is difficult to detect this sort of deception due to several reasons, but the main explanation why it is difficult to spot is that people are not seeing any flaws in their mates and fellows when it comes to love and friendship and they don't see any flaws because they believe it is difficult to split up with them. Remember Jane Eyre and Mr. Rochester, Rochester takes advantage of Jane Eyre at the beginning and she thinks Rochester loves her because she is blinded with affection. Emotional manipulation is basically what Mr. Rochester practices on Jane Eyre. A manipulator will always give you the feeling that this is your fault and you must first ask for forgiveness, even if he or she treats you badly.

Your suffering isn’t as much important as theirs Manipulators don't care about your concerns and give you no chance to chat about your issues because you and others have to keep an eye on them only. They do not pay attention to your issues and will typically tell you that what they face is worse than all the problems, and you have to feel compassionate towards them because they deserve compassion, but you do not deserve the sympathy of others. Be careful, please! manipulators are good enough at underestimating your prosperity and causing you feel incomplete, as well they make you feel like you're the one who has to struggle to keep this relationship going when they don't do anything, for instance, you have to call first, you have to be the one who gets around because they can’t, you have to be the one who gets into their problems however your problems aren’t a big deal to be listened to, you just need to be the one that has to do everything.

 

Stay caution!

I know it is important to have people around us to reinforce our emotional immune system, but not allow CONTROLHOLIC people to use this to destroyed us.

Best wishes READERS.

My big nose ain’t hurt your eyes unless you look at it

  

Look! she has a tired eye! Oh, her face features are repulsive! She ain’t fulfill the society standards! Your exceptionally large nose harms my eyes!

From my experience as a woman, I am certain that most ladies who are perusing this blog right now, if not all of them, went through this painful experience that they hear such UGLY comments on their outside appearance almost every day.

Ladies feel sort of awkward when the society limits them with specific beauty standards to be perceived as a woman.

Be sure! You are wonderful!

fortunately, there are women in our reality who are daring enough that they never permit the society to impose it’s standards on them, that they never accept to erase their original facial feature or to change their outside appearance to meet individuals’ beauty standards, yet they create their own standards and obliged the society to acknowledge them the manner in which God makes them. They are confident, resilient, and they are sure that beauty standards change every day, yet their capacity and solidarity to remain content with their physical appearance will develop each day.  On the other hand, there are women in our existence who have been marginalized by the general public in light of how they look, there are women who have been mistreated by the society because of what they look like. They needed to flee from irritating, they wanted to escape from being judged all the time based on their look. They needed to escape not on the grounds that they are not solid but rather in light of the fact that they could not accept loathe any longer, so they chose to flee into plastic surgery.

For what reason do I stand against plastic surgeries?

Each piece of our body is loaded with recollections of torment, chuckling, and triumphs encounters. Also, that implies abandoning a piece of our body implies abandoning our recollections and encounters.

How does society push young ladies to lose confidence in themselves?

Without a doubt, the entire society is taking part in persuading young ladies that young ladies are futile except if they accomplish the idealistic vogue look. Obviously, it’s unthinkable for individuals these days to permit young ladies with imperfect shapes to fit into the social network.

Girls’ good health, girls’ intelligence, and how strong they are don’t seem to be eminent by the individuals, however, girls’ perfect nose is what genuinely matters.  

Indeed, the community negative impact on young ladies pushes them to neglect their prosperity and their insight, and force young to begin concentrating more on the way toward being in the ideal shape. Ladies begin to consider disposing of their big nose and transforms it up into a clay nose, and she disposes of her fat leg by doing the harsh eating regimen, she begins to dress pink and white, and she applies Makeup all over, according to the general public this is the main way young ladies have the right to be perceived as ladies in as per society. Not to overlook, the general public connects ladies' energy with the idealistic look, accordingly women who declined society standards expected to be tragic and discouraged.

A dose of LOVE!

YOU are perfect, you are lovely. Don’t change yourself for anyone We love you the manner in which you are. The puffy nose isn't the best approach to be beautiful It’s just the half of the story, young ladies are beautiful the manner in which God made them, it wouldn’t make a difference if that they were brought into the world with a big nose or a fat leg.